We were appalled to share the stage with bands who devalue, objectify and -- worst of all -- seem to promote aggression toward women, but on the other hand we knew it made our set all the more important. All we could do was let loose on stage and hope to open a few minds. The crowd actually seemed quite taken with our performance, and we received many compliments following -- including quite a few from members of the two aforementioned bands. Of course, one guy made it a point to say he was "really surprised" by how good we were, seeming to imply he didn't expect to be impressed by an all-girl trio (although, to be fair, maybe he was just surprised to be impressed by an experimental indie rock group from Brooklyn -- who knows?).
Obviously it was hard not to have extremely mixed feelings about the entire evening and the response we got -- but it did feel necessary on some level to be there and to do what we always come to do: blow people away.
We also bonded with the one band on the bill that was made up of a bunch of very decent guys making very solid music: My New Knife.
Matt's place was about 25 minutes out of the city, but was worth the drive. He's in a quiet neighborhood and has a great shower! The only complication was his sweet but overly rambunctious dog, Roscoe. Only a year old, Roscoe has way too much energy and not enough training. He was bouncing off the walls all evening and made it difficult to relax.
Next up: Kansas City!

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